You don't have to go it alone
I've helped hundreds of social skills clients achieve their goals. I can help you, too.

As a coaching client, you will:

  • Uncover the specific roadblocks that hold you back from social success
  • Learn the specific social principles that you need to connect with others.
  • Get the specific tools you need to reach mastery and combat anxiety

My basic approach to coaching is a three step strategy:

First, I work with you to determine what success looks like. What are your goals? What do you hope to accomplish from coaching?

Next, I identify the roadblocks keeping you from reaching that success. Do you lack a specific skill? Do you struggle with anxiety? Are you caught up in self-defeating thoughts?

Finally, once we've identified the source of your social success, then we work together to overcome that roadblock. If you are lacking a specific social skill, I'll coach you in it. If anxiety is the culprit, we'll do exercises to build your confidence. If your self-defeating thoughts are forcing you to self-sabotage, we'll develop some strategies for thinking positive.

Coaching takes place over Skype, and each session is 50 minutes long. There are two different levels of coaching available -- either work directly with me, or work with my junior coach Kyler. Read on to choose the option that fits your needs.

Coaching with Dan

$150 per session, or $120 per session if you buy three.

I'm the author of the site, and I've been coaching clients since 2012. Whatever you want to improve, there's a decent chance I've helped someone else with it.

I'm probably a good fit for you if:

  • You resonated with the Improve Your Social Skills guide
  • You want a coach with years of experience
  • You have Asperger's or a similar condition

Coaching With Dan

Coaching with Kyler

$100 per session, or $80 per session if you buy three.

Kyler is my junior coach. He's worked for many years as an athletic coach, so he's fantastic for encouraging you to face your fears and grow socially. And he has many years of marriage experience that he draws on to help you succeed in your romantic relationships.

Whether you want to feel more confident at parties, more polished in a job interview or more suave when talking to that special someone, Kyler can help you take your social skills to the next level.

Kyler is probably a good fit for you if:

  • You need help with increasing motivation and reducing anxiety
  • You want help in your romantic relationships
  • Your budget is more limited.

Coaching With Kyler


I've got answers.

Generally, sessions start by you telling your coach about your social skills goals. Once your coach knows what success looks like for you, they'll identifying the roadblocks that hold you back from that success and start putting together a plan to help you overcome them.

Then, you and your coach get to work! If you need training on particular skills, your coach will teach you. If you need to practice and build your confidence, your coach will role-play social situations with you. Whatever you need, your coach will help you with.

Lots of things! We can help you get better at conversation, combat social anxiety, make new friends, pick up on social cues, charm your date -- the list goes on.

There's two things we don't do, though. First, we don't help with mental health issues. If you're struggling with depression or another mental health issue, we can still help you with your social skills -- but we can't treat your depression. (See the note on therapy below)

Second, we don't teach "pick up artist" techniques, social manipulation, or sleazy tricks. We only teach ethical social skills that will lead you to healthy connections. If you're looking for sneaky tricks, look elsewhere.

Scroll down to the bottom of the page and you'll find a Paypal button. Choose your preferred coach and whether you want to sign up for 1 or 3 sessions. Make your selection, and you can check out using your Paypal account or credit card. Easy!
You can get a refund for any sessions that you've paid for but haven't done yet. If a session has already taken place, or if you failed to show up for a session that you scheduled, you are not eligible for a refund.
We can coach high school age and up. Younger kids probably wouldn't benefit much from Skype-based coaching.
Once you've purchased a session, your coach will be in contact with you to schedule a Skype call for a time that works for both of you. 
Sessions take place via Skype. You'll need to install Skype on your computer, and you'll need an adequate internet connection, a working microphone, and headphones or computer speakers. Having a webcam is ideal so your coach can help with your body language, but it's okay to do your sessions with just voice.
Use your common sense. Keep conversation topics PG, respect the privacy of your coach, show up on time for your sessions, stuff like that. If you are more than 10 minutes late to a session, or if your behavior is very inappropriate, your coach may (at their discretion) cancel the session without a refund.
That's fine -- just email me using the form below and I'll be happy to answer.

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A note about therapy

Social skills coaching is not therapy, and it is not intended to treat mental health problems. If you think you might benefit from therapy, I encourage you check out the listings for therapists in your area and get in touch with someone. If you're not sure if therapy might help you, visit -- it's an online test designed by a psychologist that can help you determine if you might benefit from therapy.


Sign up for coaching using the button below! You'll be directed to Paypal to check out, and then brought back to my website so you can send me information on your coaching goals. After you pay for your session, your coach should be in touch within 1-2 business days.

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